Increase Your Confidence and Successfully Seduce Your Partner

by Christine Petrik & David Green

Many folks experience a good deal of self-imposed pressure to be sexy or seductive with their partner on Valentine’s Day. It can be overwhelming and invoke anxiety – a passion killer.

This Valentine’s Day we’d like to share some advice from Gabriel Medina. In his article, Self-Awareness & Body Language Medina describes the importance of confident body language in the art of successful seduction. The writer also suggests a whopping 93% of communication is non-verbal. That might be overestimated, but whatever the actual percentage, non-verbal communication is paramount.

In his article, Medina highlights 10 ways you can improve your self-esteem, boost confidence and be just plain happier by some body language self-awareness. 

1) Smile and laugh more often.

2) Take up more room.

3) Relax your shoulders.

4) Make eye contact.

5) Use your hands.

6) Increase proximity and avoid obstacles.

7) Watch your facial expressions.

8) Improve your posture.

9) Avoid crossing your arms or closing off your body.

10) Think before you speak.

We'd like to suggest adding this to Medina’s recipe for seduction success: Apply all 10 tips at once. That's right; to send a clear message that you're interested - here's how you can seduce him/her with uber confidence! 

1) Instead of Smile and laugh more often, grin and use a naughty giggle.

2) Don’t just Take up more room, own the space.

3) Relax your shoulders, YES – relax your shoulders.

4) When you Make eye contact, softly gaze into their eyes, then wink.

5) Use your hands – Use your hands, fingers, feet, toes….

6) Instead of Increase proximity and avoid obstacles, ease in and out of their space.

7) Instead of Watch your facial expressions, create facial expressions that convey delight.

8) Improve your posture. Spine straight, shoulders back, chin up and maybe even arch your back, ever so slightly!

9) More than Avoid crossing your arms or closing off your body, DON’T close off your body!

10) Instead of Think before you speak, pause then intentionally deliver a whisper.

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!
Christine Petrik & David Green